Comments on: Acceptance http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/11/acceptance.html Mon, 23 Jan 2012 11:20:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Cathy http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/11/acceptance.html/comment-page-1#comment-628 Cathy Thu, 12 Nov 2009 17:19:24 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=271#comment-628 Thanks Bethany :-) Thanks Bethany :-)

]]> By: bethany http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/11/acceptance.html/comment-page-1#comment-627 bethany Wed, 11 Nov 2009 02:58:07 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=271#comment-627 "And I’m very, very good at pretending things are ok when they’re not." - Most people are, so don't beat yourself up too badly because you do this. This is such a horrible 9 (?) years to go through... and painful at all times, I can't imagine it. Fill out the form and breathe, though. Otherwise, it will sit on your shoulders until you do so. I hope this doctor helps, I really do. *hugs* “And I’m very, very good at pretending things are ok when they’re not.” – Most people are, so don’t beat yourself up too badly because you do this.

This is such a horrible 9 (?) years to go through… and painful at all times, I can’t imagine it.

Fill out the form and breathe, though. Otherwise, it will sit on your shoulders until you do so.

I hope this doctor helps, I really do. *hugs*

]]> By: Cathy http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/11/acceptance.html/comment-page-1#comment-626 Cathy Tue, 10 Nov 2009 20:14:35 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=271#comment-626 You're right, it's definitely a process and I'm certainly not all the way there. Yesterday when I wrote this I was feeling sad, today it's more anger and "life's not fair". It'll get better. AND you bring up a very good point about being uprooted. Although we're both thrilled about the move and having a new place, all my daily routines are out of whack and/or I'm trying to come up with new ones... You’re right, it’s definitely a process and I’m certainly not all the way there. Yesterday when I wrote this I was feeling sad, today it’s more anger and “life’s not fair”. It’ll get better.

AND you bring up a very good point about being uprooted. Although we’re both thrilled about the move and having a new place, all my daily routines are out of whack and/or I’m trying to come up with new ones…

]]> By: The Crazy Suburban Mom http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/11/acceptance.html/comment-page-1#comment-625 The Crazy Suburban Mom Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:49:03 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=271#comment-625 Acceptance is a process really... and yeah, I totally get pretending things are okay when they are not. I really think that is how some people deal with things. Its not all that bad. It kind of allows you to ease into things - get used to things. And I dont like things not to be in my control either - I don't like flying for that reason I think. sigh. You must feel worse because your lifes uprooted too. Tracy Acceptance is a process really… and yeah, I totally get pretending things are okay when they are not. I really think that is how some people deal with things. Its not all that bad. It kind of allows you to ease into things – get used to things. And I dont like things not to be in my control either – I don’t like flying for that reason I think.

sigh. You must feel worse because your lifes uprooted too.

Tracy

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