Comments on: I Hate It When I Don’t Get My Way http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html Mon, 23 Jan 2012 11:20:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Patty http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-531 Patty Tue, 22 Sep 2009 23:00:39 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-531 I didn't realize until I read this today that you were having so many health problems. No major health problems here but we have had a lot going on and some of it not so good. The sharp objects in your womanly parts are not as bad as you think and if it works it is worth it. If it doesn't work sometimes the hope of it working gets you to the point that you either accept it or you look for other alternatives that lead you to a new place. Infertility is a journey and I learned a lot from it. I hope you find a place soon. I will keep you in my prayers. I didn’t realize until I read this today that you were having so many health problems. No major health problems here but we have had a lot going on and some of it not so good. The sharp objects in your womanly parts are not as bad as you think and if it works it is worth it. If it doesn’t work sometimes the hope of it working gets you to the point that you either accept it or you look for other alternatives that lead you to a new place. Infertility is a journey and I learned a lot from it. I hope you find a place soon. I will keep you in my prayers.

]]> By: Cathy http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-527 Cathy Mon, 21 Sep 2009 21:27:32 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-527 Thanks so much, Stesha! We are trying to avoid the COBRA thing at all costs and I'm SO sorry that your family has to deal with them... Thanks so much, Stesha!

We are trying to avoid the COBRA thing at all costs and I’m SO sorry that your family has to deal with them…

]]> By: Stesha http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-526 Stesha Mon, 21 Sep 2009 02:04:00 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-526 Dammit, I hate having to use Cobra, they suck so bad, but I won't talk about me. We are here to talk about you. I didn't know you were having health issues. I'm so sorry, and I hope you feel better soon. You old co-workers can just suck it! Sometimes the things we see as a bad thing, can actually turn into a good thing. If you need me you know where to find me, dear virtual friend:) Hugs and Mocha, Stesha Dammit, I hate having to use Cobra, they suck so bad, but I won’t talk about me. We are here to talk about you.

I didn’t know you were having health issues. I’m so sorry, and I hope you feel better soon.

You old co-workers can just suck it!

Sometimes the things we see as a bad thing, can actually turn into a good thing. If you need me you know where to find me, dear virtual friend:)

Hugs and Mocha,
Stesha

]]> By: Cathy http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-522 Cathy Fri, 18 Sep 2009 23:22:48 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-522 I was going to say you have no idea how much I appreciate that, but I think maybe you do. Thank you :) I was going to say you have no idea how much I appreciate that, but I think maybe you do. Thank you :)

]]> By: Cathy http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-521 Cathy Fri, 18 Sep 2009 23:20:24 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-521 Thanks :) and, I am grateful for the answers I got even if I don't really care for the painful delivery method. But then again, I AM pretty stubborn, so maybe that's what it took to finally get my attention... Thanks :) and, I am grateful for the answers I got even if I don’t really care for the painful delivery method. But then again, I AM pretty stubborn, so maybe that’s what it took to finally get my attention…

]]> By: Nina http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-520 Nina Fri, 18 Sep 2009 19:53:21 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-520 I'm sorry that things have been so sucky, but I'm happy that you have a plan. You haven't let this defeat you. I'd like to help any way I can. I’m sorry that things have been so sucky, but I’m happy that you have a plan. You haven’t let this defeat you. I’d like to help any way I can.

]]> By: bethany http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-519 bethany Fri, 18 Sep 2009 19:11:18 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-519 Cathy, I cannot explain in words my empathy for what you're going through. I can only imagine how sad you are with all of these unexpected changes, and I sincerely hope that my following perspective provides some comfort, because I offer it out of deepest respect. I'm not going to tell you to pray, as you've made your views extremely clear. What I suggest is, your prayers have been answered, albeit, maybe not in the way you want to hear, which is difficult for all of us. You were probably praying for guidance on moving - and you got that, in the form of inconvenient medical answers and the fact that, the timing is not coincidental - your procedures will take as long as the certification tests will take for your husband to take. That's a huge coincidence, no? I heard a quote the other day: "Coincidence is God's way of remaining anonymous" - Albert Einstein While you are packing and moving to a better house for your living, and, hopefully, future moving needs, you will begin to see the positives of that change, as you already have. I think, even more positives will come forward for you. I think these changes will make a lot of your dreams come true. Keep hoping, keep believing, and keep wishing, sweetie, and I will keep you and your wishes in my thoughts. *hugs* Cathy, I cannot explain in words my empathy for what you’re going through. I can only imagine how sad you are with all of these unexpected changes, and I sincerely hope that my following perspective provides some comfort, because I offer it out of deepest respect.

I’m not going to tell you to pray, as you’ve made your views extremely clear. What I suggest is, your prayers have been answered, albeit, maybe not in the way you want to hear, which is difficult for all of us. You were probably praying for guidance on moving – and you got that, in the form of inconvenient medical answers and the fact that, the timing is not coincidental – your procedures will take as long as the certification tests will take for your husband to take. That’s a huge coincidence, no?

I heard a quote the other day:

“Coincidence is God’s way of remaining anonymous” – Albert Einstein

While you are packing and moving to a better house for your living, and, hopefully, future moving needs, you will begin to see the positives of that change, as you already have. I think, even more positives will come forward for you.

I think these changes will make a lot of your dreams come true. Keep hoping, keep believing, and keep wishing, sweetie, and I will keep you and your wishes in my thoughts.

*hugs*

]]> By: Cathy http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-518 Cathy Fri, 18 Sep 2009 18:47:52 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-518 "but I also know you well enough to know if you’re not ready to talk about something, you won’t." and THAT is one of the reasons why I love you so much. You totally get me. And yeah, the fb and twitter updates were mostly to help explain why I wasn't around and was ignoring everyone else. Then I wrote this when I was ready to talk about it. That being said, you are the BEST friend ever and you have your own shit going on and stop feeling bad right now about not calling me. The feed screw up should be fixed now... “but I also know you well enough to know if you’re not ready to talk about something, you won’t.” and THAT is one of the reasons why I love you so much. You totally get me.

And yeah, the fb and twitter updates were mostly to help explain why I wasn’t around and was ignoring everyone else. Then I wrote this when I was ready to talk about it.

That being said, you are the BEST friend ever and you have your own shit going on and stop feeling bad right now about not calling me.

The feed screw up should be fixed now…

]]> By: Nikki http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-517 Nikki Fri, 18 Sep 2009 18:04:59 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-517 Oh my God! I am the worst friend ever. I had no idea you even posted this. I have the little notification thingie on my homepage that is *supposed* to tell me when you post new stuff; but apparently since you moved over, it doesn't work. :( Although, it did show me your first post, so WTF? WIth that said, I really should have checked in on you. I knew you were posting things on your FB about having a hard time... but I also know you well enough to know if you're not ready to talk about something, you won't. So I didn't want to intrude/push. But wow, this is all MAJOR stuff! We definately should go for drinkies soon. Things in my life haven't been all peaches and daisies either; not that they nearly compare to moving and uterine trolls. But I haven't seen you in forever and we need some talk time. I miss you! Oh my God! I am the worst friend ever. I had no idea you even posted this. I have the little notification thingie on my homepage that is *supposed* to tell me when you post new stuff; but apparently since you moved over, it doesn’t work. :( Although, it did show me your first post, so WTF?

WIth that said, I really should have checked in on you. I knew you were posting things on your FB about having a hard time… but I also know you well enough to know if you’re not ready to talk about something, you won’t. So I didn’t want to intrude/push. But wow, this is all MAJOR stuff!

We definately should go for drinkies soon. Things in my life haven’t been all peaches and daisies either; not that they nearly compare to moving and uterine trolls. But I haven’t seen you in forever and we need some talk time. I miss you!

]]> By: Cathy http://www.thefamilye.com/2009/09/i-hate-it-when-i-dont-get-my-way.html/comment-page-1#comment-515 Cathy Thu, 17 Sep 2009 20:19:46 +0000 http://www.marvelousmrse.com/?p=219#comment-515 Exactly! I feel SO relieved, and at least like I know what I'm supposed to be working towards. Also, this means a housewarming party! Even if we're only going to be there 6 months and I probably won't even hang pictures ;) Exactly! I feel SO relieved, and at least like I know what I’m supposed to be working towards.

Also, this means a housewarming party! Even if we’re only going to be there 6 months and I probably won’t even hang pictures ;)

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